Matius 10:38

10:38 And whoever does not take up his cross ¹  and follow me is not worthy of me.

Matius 20:26

20:26 It must not be this way among you! Instead whoever wants to be great among you must be your servant,

[10:38]  ¹ sn It was customary practice in a Roman crucifixion for the prisoner to be made to carry his own cross. Jesus is speaking figuratively here in the context of rejection. If the priority is not one’s allegiance to Jesus, then one will not follow him in the face of possible rejection.